A Catechumenal Model for Confirmation

By Fr. Tom Washburn, O.F.M.

[The Living Light, Spring 2002]

 

Many in religious education circles are perplexed when it comes to effectively evangelizing and catechizing adolescents who often on the surface appear disinterested when it comes to faith and Church membership. Can it be possible that working with adolescents, preparing them for Confirmation, involving them lifelong in the Church may be easier than we assume?  The answer is yes.  When today’s parents were just children themselves, the Second Vatican Council in Gaudium et Spes recognized the need for a church that was attentive to the signs of the culture around them and sought a way to communicate the life saving Gospel of Jesus Christ in a way that each culture and each age can understand and make their own.

The answer is right in front of us.  The Order of Christian Initiation of Adults is excellent in its realization that people do not come to faith through a learning that is akin to the academy, but rather through a personal experience of encounter with people who are excited about faith and want to invite others into an experience of that exciting faith.  Adolescents too need see that faith is something relevant and helpful to their lives. By modeling adolescent catechesis on the O.C.I.A. model of invitation, inquiry, illumination and sacrament, Confirmation can become a new beginning for this young generation.

At 1995’s World Youth Day, Pope John Paul II said, “What is needed today is a Church which knows how to respond to the expectations of young people.  Jesus wants to enter into a dialogue with them and, through his body which is the Church, to propose the possibility of a choice which will require a commitment of their lives.  As Jesus with the disciples of Emmaus, so the Church must become today the traveling companion of young people.” (Youth: Sent to Proclaim True Liberation, World Youth Day 1995, Philippines)

U.S. Bishops responded with Renewing the Vision: A Framework for Catholic Youth Ministry (1997) which outlined the challenge: (1) to empower youth to live as disciples of Christ in today’s world; (2) to draw young people to responsible participation in the life, mission and work of the faith community; and (3) to foster the personal and spiritual growth of young people.

Today’s youth grow up in a religiously plural environment with an a la carte approach to their spiritual lives, willing to take whatever they come across that seems of value.  Too often on the parish level young people go through the sacramental conveyor belt.  Once the Sacrament of Confirmation has been administered they are absent from the Church until another sacramental “moment” – usually marriage or the baptism of a child. 

A great opportunity is missed. The current generation is hungry for meaning, hungry to be agents of positive change.  Nothing meets this hunger better than faith in Jesus and full and active membership in His Church.  In the Pope’s recent document, Novo Millennio Inuente, he challenged youth to preserve our faith into the third millennium:

Young people…have a profound longing for those genuine values which find their fullness in Christ…If Christ is presented to young people as he really is, they experience him as an answer that is convincing and they can accept his message, even when it is demanding and bears the mark of the Cross. For this reason, in response to their enthusiasm, I did not hesitate to ask them to make a radical choice of faith and life and present them with a stupendous task: to become "morning watchmen" (cf. Is 21:11-12) at the dawn of the new millennium.” (no. 9)

 

We need to work outside of traditional religious education structures and employ new approaches to reach adolescents and effectively invite them into full membership in the Church community.  We must find ways to communicate the Gospel to a community that has in effect never heard it.  We can’t assume there is a base of shared religious knowledge received from parents, other family and Church.   We must share the message of Christ as though it hasn’t been heard to a community that listens very differently than in the past. Renewing the Vision recognizes the changing needs and approaches to catechizing and evangelizing youth. 

The key to greater effectiveness lies in moving from programs to people.  Adolescent Confirmation is often misunderstood as Christian Bar Mitzvah, a coming of age ritual instead of an integral part of initiation.  Adolescents are often unconnected to parish life and uninterested in full membership.  Confirmation catechisis must be more communal, must stress a greater integrity of desire for the Sacrament of Confirmation among the young and their parents by rethinking how we express the theology of the sacrament and how we incorporate families and parish into a truly communal event by reforming the context of catechesis, reworking the confirmation interview and developing a new retreat designed to draw the young people into the active life of membership in this community.

Today’s adolescents, called Millennials (b. 1981 – present), are products of postmodern culture.  Author Leonard Sweet describes post-modern culture as EPIC: Experiential, Participatory, Image-Driven, Connected:  “Experience is the currency of postmodern economics.  In the last half century much of the world has transitioned from an industrial economy (driven by things) to a knowledge economy (driven by bits) to an experience economy (which traffics in experiences).” (p. 33)   How responsive are most programs to this style of learning?  Vatican II’s Gaudium et Spes reminded us, “The Church has always had the duty of scrutinizing the signs of the times and of interpreting them in the light of the Gospel.” (no. 4) Yet in response to these words we have continued by and large, the same one-dimensional learning styles that bore adolescents right out of the Church. 

Sweet writes, “Postmoderns want to experience what life is, especially experience life for themselves.”   (p. 34) Traditional classroom structure doesn’t encourage membership in a community.  To truly invite adolescents into a community, faith must be tangible, community must be experienced and not mere words in a textbook.

This approach isn’t new in the Church. Long before the textbook, the Church taught its catechism in an experiential way through the images on the walls of the Church, the scenes depicted on the stain glass windows, the statues in city squares, the blood of the martyrs, and the praxis of the community.  Today the technology has changed, but the concept remains the same. As humans we must enter a story to fully understand it.  Perhaps that is why Christ gives us a model of initiation with his own disciples that is based on much more than teaching, in fact his disciples regularly fail at the teaching and learning part.  Jesus told us time and time again that “the Kingdom of God is like…” and we instead present to adolescents “begotten, not made, one in being with the Father.”  Deep theological exploration is important, but not as a starting point, just as it was not the beginning point for the early Church.  We continue to see how effective interactive catechesis was then and can be now.  Just recall how vivid the heart-felt imagery of the Parable of the Prodigal Son is in teaching forgiveness.  Parables are “EPIC” and Millennials can connect.

In 1986, the National Federation for Catholic Youth Ministry highlighted the need for a stylistic change in adolescent initiation.  “The primary aim of adolescent catechesis is to sponsor youth toward maturity in Catholic faith as a living reality…Adolescent catechesis is the process of journeying with young people toward increasing maturity as Catholic Christians.” (The Challenge of Adolescent Catechesis, p. 1) We must apply to adolescent catechesis the same lessons learned from the highly successful restored Order of Christian Initiation of Adults which creates a sense of membership in the Church personally, catechetically, spiritually and liturgically.  Faith sharing, interactive and engaging catechesis, a life connection – these all work well with adolescents.

The Pope said, "This is what is needed: a Church for young people, which will know how to speak to their heart and enkindle, comfort, and inspire enthusiasm in it with the joy of the Gospel and the strength of the Eucharist… which does not fear asking from young people the effort of a noble and authentic adventure, such as that of following of the Gospel.” (World Youth Day of Prayer for Vocations, 1995).

The challenge is to bridge the gap from what is to what is hoped for.  The desire to have programs that can be clearly judged by objective standards such as requirements fulfilled, papers written, books read, is much safer ground than one that seeks to discover if someone has set foot on the journey of life with Christ.  The criteria for that assessment is subjective, but I think, ultimately a more worthwhile criteria to pursue for the faith lives of adolescents.

The parish of St. Thomas Aquinas has over 10,000 members on its roster.  The religious education program serves 1,200 young people annually with 200 catechists.  In addition to catechetical programs, St. Thomas has an active Youth Ministry program that works with Junior High  and High School youth and young adults attempting to meet their spiritual, service and social needs.  Our former program involved a traditional two-year, academic oriented Confirmation program that culminated in the all-important Confirmation Staff Interview to discuss: the Sacramental nature of Confirmation, the involvement of confirmandi in the community, what has been learned, etc.  It was a highly ineffective process, not quite what Lumen Gentium was looking for: “By Confirmation, the baptized are…as true witnesses of Christ, more strictly obliged to spread and defend the faith by word and deed.” (no. 11)  Many programs seek to make theologians instead of initiating members into a community taking a last-chance approach to Confirmation preparation. “This is the last chance to fill their minds with Catholic dogma and teaching.” 

We shifted our understanding of this task as part of a “program” run by “teachers” for “students” away from the academic model to a formation model that speaks of religious formation (not education), faith-seekers (not students), and catechists (not teachers).  Never underestimate the power of our words.  We looked at active adolescents to see if there was something common to their experience.  We have many adolescents active in the liturgical assembly as lectors, eucharistic ministers, music ministers, servers, masters of ceremony, leaders of our children’s Liturgy of the Word, members of our parish Liturgy Committee, etc.  They are ministers serving their peers alongside qualified adults.  They are religious formators to younger children. They train new altar servers, work in outreach programs (serving dinners to the HIV/AIDS community, the soup kitchen, or summertime meals for migrant workers). 

Active adolescents shared a few characteristics. They experienced themselves as members of the community - almost always through personal connection.  Someone of faith made a difference in their lives that connected them to the community.  Most had attended our Teens Encounter Christ (TEC) retreat.  Most had been invited by parish leadership to use their gifts in the community.

We evaluated our program in light of RTV, “All ministry with adolescents must be directed towards presenting young people with the Good News of Jesus Christ and inviting and challenging them to become disciples.” (p. 10) We identified areas of concern like the lack of integrity of the sacrament of Confirmation acting as though it is more important to Confirm young people (conveyor belt) than it is to challenge youth to discipleship.  When this great event of full membership in the Church is populated by strangers, it loses its symbolic and sacramental value.

We agreed that not everyone must be confirmed at the end of the program.  Instead, only those who desire Confirmation receive it.  Easier said than done. Anyone who has encountered parents only concerned that their child be married in the Church while not being particularly interested in whether or not they participate in their faith can understand the dilemma.  This required a great deal of education of the parents as well.  A re-orientation of our catechists also needed to take place.  Somehow Confirmation had become a rite of graduation from the church not commencement into fuller membership in the Church.  Confirmation was a fond farewell to those whom we barely knew.

We focused on trying to recover a sense of Confirmation as intrinsically tied to the process of initiation.  Most parishes have experienced the success of the O.C.I.A. and yet failed to apply those lessons to other initiation programs.  “As our vision of religious education becomes more holistic, our approach to it becomes more pastoral.  We realize increasingly that our efforts on behalf of religious education should be less fragmented, more global, more coordinated and comprehensive; they should bring about more cooperation, more sharing of ideas, responsibilities and resources,” according to Francoise Darcy-Berube (Religious Education at the Crossroads, 1995, p. 19).  The model of our programs should develop informed disciples whose lives are formed by the Gospel, whose parents have a role in the formation process and are integrated into the life of the community.

The quote from Luke’s Gospel quickly came to mind as the goal of our new vision.  “Were not our hearts burning within us while he was talking to us on the road, while he was opening the scriptures to us?” (Luke 24.32)  This is the experience of discipleship that we wanted to strive for rather than merely being able to show in our files that young people had turned in the requisite paperwork and attended the correct number of classes.  We want young disciples!

In the new program, aptly called Burning Hearts, Confirmation is viewed as part of the Sacraments of Initiation.  It is a good chance to make young people feel like members of a community of believers, to light a spark of faith in their lives, to invite them into the mystery of God’s love for them, and to help them embark on a life-long journey of faith growth and exploration.  If there is an overarching theme to this program it is community. Young people will enthusiastically enter full membership in the church if they see that they are welcome and that this faith can change their lives.  Once that goal is accomplished they will want to know more about our faith and so post-Confirmation catechesis (mystagogia) is another important element in this program.  Like the Order of Christian Initiation (O.C.I.A.) we seek to first invite, and then allow for a period of inquiry, a period of catechizing, a period of purification and illumination, a completion of initiation (Confirmation) and a life of continued involvement in the community.

While still holding true to the requirements set forth by our diocese, Burning Hearts seeks to adapt and present the process of preparation for Confirmation in a way that the youth can apprehend and make their own.  The program is focused around three areas: worship, service, catechesis.  All three of these foci orient the youth towards community.  The first adaptation is that all events happen within the context of the parish.  In the past, religious education students would do things like hold separate prayer services, do individual service projects, spend a lot of time in isolated learning.  These are not bad things in and of themselves, but they don’t serve the goal of membership in the community. 

In terms of worship, it is an expectation that youth attend Mass weekly as well as make an attempt to foster their own prayer life and spirituality.  Youth also sponsor worship events for the parish during the year ranging from evenings of Eucharistic Devotion to Lenten Stations of the Cross and other ideas that they may bring to the community.  They also attend a retreat each year.

 Similarly with service projects, many of the same projects still exist, but instead of doing something separated from the community, youth invite others to join them in a service activity as well as participate in service activities that are being offered by the parish.  The effects of young people doing service side-by-side with older members of the community is a beautiful thing to watch as one generation comes to realize and support the faith of the new generation.  They come to know the type of service that their faith community engages in.

Catechetically, the content is the same, but the context is radically different.  Catechesis takes place in a more interactive and engaging environment.  The new approach builds in greater flexibility.  The curriculum is divided topically and offered in four week blocks at different times on different days to work with the life of youth.  This has also increased the number of adults involved as many people can commit to a four week mini-course who could not commit to a two year program.  When presented in a format that youth can understand, it is always satisfying to watch the young person come to the realization that these are the words of life.  Context is everything.

Another area of change surrounded the traditional confirmation interview.  The Diocese of Manchester asks that each young person being confirmed meet with a member of the parish staff prior to Confirmation.  We quickly eliminated the staff interview in its former form.  Instead of the individual session, we developed communal sessions.  Over the course of four evenings, we invited groups of 20 youth along with catechists, members of the parish staff and one or two confirmed youth into the rectory for prayer, conversation and dinner.  These sessions began with prayer – lead by the young people - followed by introductions, a basic sharing by the parish staff on our hopes and understanding of this moment and then a chance for genuine conversation to begin.  Halfway through we broke for pizza and soda.  Without exception, each of these sessions was effective modeling a greater sense of community and connectedness.  The atmosphere was more engaging and less intimidating. Adolescents were encouraged to share, discuss and ask any questions that they might have as they approached this faith moment. 

We developed an explanation of Confirmation that was more helpful to the lives of young people - Gifts of the Holy Spirit: A Tool Box for believers.  Here is a basic recap of what we shared with the youth: Our lives of faith are difficult.  Our world challenges us all the time.  How will we be up to the challenge and strengthen our faith? God gives us some gifts - Wisdom, Understanding, Knowledge, Fortitude, Counsel, Piety, Fear (Awe) of God. We always have a choice to use gifts or not.  If we don’t use them, they can’t strengthen us. Just because we’re given gifts, doesn’t mean we know how to use them. We are part of a community of believers so that together we can learn to use them and strengthen our faith lives. When we think of the challenges in our lives, the gifts of the Spirit are really those things that help us meet the challenge. Wisdom – the ability to know what God wants you to do.  Understanding – helps you know what God has revealed to human beings.  Knowledge – gives you the ability to understand and accept things as they are.  Fortitude – provides you with special strength and courage to deal with life’s trials.  Counsel – helps you to decide what to choose and what to do in touch situations.  Piety – helps you to honor God as a good and loving Creator.  Fear of God – gives you power to love and show reverence to God in all you do. These gifts must be learned and lived in community.

We stressed the prayerful and the service nature of the Church and the need for these Confirmed youth to see the Sacramental event as a starting point.  A primary question to the youth was: Where will you fit into this community after Confirmation?

We revamped our retreat structure to address our new approach.  Building on our EPIC model, the Lukan story of the disciples on the road to Emmaus who encounter the Risen Lord and see him in the opening of Scripture and the breaking of the bread, seemed like the most obvious choice.  Emmaus is an EPIC moment. The disciples experience Jesus in multiple and interactive ways and came to see who he was and who they were in relation to him – they were connected. 

The content of the retreat did not differ much from a TEC retreat.  The conceptual focus remained on the Paschal Mystery, the sacraments, prayer, Christian living, and reflections on the Confirmation and the Gifts of the Holy Spirit.  But the context of the retreat was drastically altered.  Our approach was to get to know these young people on a personal level, to make connection with them and invite them into a community of believers.  We focused on continual community building activities, had a strong stress on personal interaction and discussion, celebrated prayer and worship services that were engaging and structured in a way that spoke to youth sensibilities.  We placed a greater focus on what they needed to know and express than on our need to dispense dogma.

We also involved as much of the parish as we could.  Some of the strategies for this involved keeping the parishioners aware of the process that these youth were moving through during the year, keeping their process in the awareness of the minds of the broader parish through bulletin articles, Mass announcement, prayer petitions, mentions in homilies, etc.  Additionally, we invited the whole parish to write letters to all the candidates on retreat to offer prayer and support for them.  Many parishioners also dropped off baked goods and the like for retreatants during the weekend. We also made a big push for large parish attendance at the Confirmation instead of just the candidates and their families and sponsors.

On the retreat, we highlighted confirmed teens.  In addition to every talk given, a confirmed teenager offered a personal witness on how all of this information and connection had effected their lives in real and concrete ways.  Retreatants had opportunities to reflect by journaling, small and large group discussion, prayer petition, poster-making, and other ways.  Time and time again it was the personal witness of peers that made the deep connection with the teens on retreat and it was these connections that continue to resonate with these young people now months after their Confirmation.

Let me share a few comments that came back from youth following this new approach:

“Well, you told me to email you about stuff, so I am. I would really like to get signed up for Steubenville, if you could get that arranged. I would also like to sign up for something to do with mass. I haven't decided what yet, or if I wanna do lots of things, but I want to do something. Maybe eucharistic minister or something. Maybe even a be a lector someday. Who knows? You can email me back, or I'll talk to you at youth group. A cool thing happened the other night when I went to bed. I had already said my prayers and I was trying to get to sleep, but with all this violent stuff going on at school I had pictures of
friends dying and all this really bad stuff. It was really disturbing. I asked God to calm me down and give me strength, and that instant my mind went totally clear and this wave of calmness washed over me. It was great! I want you to know how much my life has changed these past few months, especially at the retreat last weekend. Five months ago I didn't care, and now I go to church and youth group every week, pray at least twice a day, gone on retreats left and right, and I've totally committed myself to God.  It's great and I don't see why I didn't do it sooner, but I'm very thankful. Thanks so much!”              – Kevin, 15

 

           And:

 

“Thank you also for the awesome retreat weekend.  It was undoubtedly life changing. I met many new friends and I feel that the way I felt about religion and God has changed and I am so much more comfortable with it. Thank you so much.

P.S. Don’t forget to take me up on the volunteering things we talked about at Walk to Emmaus. Thanx.”                              - Rich, 16

 

I certainly don’t mean to imply that these changes have suddenly created perfect disciples, but the difference between this year and prior years has been very evident.  These comments give witness to young people who made a connection with a community and with a faith experience that was perhaps a first-time event for them.  After seven years of continuous religious education, they finally felt like members of this group of believers.  These young people have also had a great desire to be involved in a continued way and at a deeper level in the life of the Church community.

As RTV concludes, “The Church and the world need the faith, gifts, energy, and fresh ideas of young people. The entire Church, and in a special way ministry with adolescents, must empower young people for their mission in the world…All our efforts to promote an active Christian discipleship and growth in Catholic identity must lead toward mission.  We pray with the whole Church that we can meet the challenge of Gaudium et Spes; ‘…the future of humanity lies in the hands of those who are strong enough to provide coming generations with reasons for living and hoping’.” (no. 31)

The challenge of youth ministry, the challenge of the Church in the United States is to trust in the work that God can and will do in the lives of youth if we but only participate with Him in the task at hand.  It is sometimes frightening to enter into truly new ground, but once we make that leap of faith, it may just be that in addition to bringing the youth into activity in our Church, we may well also be lead by their growing faith. 

As the Pope wrote, “I did not hesitate to ask them to make a radical choice of faith and life and present them with a stupendous task: to become "morning watchmen" (cf. Is 21:11-12) at the dawn of the new millennium.” (Novo Millennio Inuente, 9)  We must participate with him in preparing these “morning watchmen” for the task that lies ahead. 

The challenge of creating young disciples is not a difficult one, but it must be a personal one, taken up by the whole community in an effort to draw young people into a life of faith.

 

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